Dealing with rude clients

9 years 10 months ago #378984 by Miss Polly
I just got off the phone with a client who is completely different from who she was before she gave deposit.  This has happened before, clients are all sweet and pleasant to deal with.  Then they give deposit and transform into a monster!  I really have a tough time with people being rude to me.  They are paying for a service, which doesn't give them a free hall pass to be rude.  

I told the client I would refund her money and for her to find another photographer.  Strange thing happened, when the talk of her money going back to her, she became all nice again.  :dry:

I'd like to know how much do you put up with before you throw in the towel?  


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9 years 10 months ago #379012 by Joves
I am guessing this is for a wedding. 

You will have to deal with rude people throughout all of life. You should try working in the heavy construction industry on the concrete end sometime. The stress in this end of the business makes normally nice people into monsters. It is business so I do not take it personally. Sounds like you handled it correctly. I would do that anytime they start getting rude, and note that they wanted you to do the work, not the other way around. 


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9 years 10 months ago #379024 by Tim Chiang
Depends on the client, even still I have a lower tolerance for rude people


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9 years 10 months ago #379042 by Ian Stone
I have pretty thick skin, so it takes a lot to get me worked up


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9 years 10 months ago #379047 by effron
Wouldn't depend on the client to me. If I had nothing invested yet, I'd refund the deposit and say bye. At my age, one strike and you're out. You may feel different......(I sure don't miss doing this for a living).......:dry:

Why so serious?
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9 years 10 months ago - 9 years 10 months ago #379068 by Stealthy Ninja
We had one guy who wanted a photo slideshow, but kept demanding we do this and that and got mad/condescending when we explained that the final product isn't going to be that much different to the samples we sent (we're not going to bend over backwards doing custom samples for people).  The guy kept telling us how we should run our business and basically: "I'm the customer, you need to treat me the way I demand."

In the end I just said we can't do the work for them and blocked all contact.

Some people are just not worth the money.
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9 years 10 months ago #379100 by Vahrenkamp
Well it always depends on how bad you need the money.  


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9 years 10 months ago #379192 by garyrhook
Define "rude"?

SN's post above is about someone that becomes demanding, and the response is all about "this is the service I (we) provide; I don't do what you are asking. It would be better for you to find someone else that can meet your needs because I am unable to do so. Thankyouforyourinterestandgood day."

It is imperative to know how to fire a customer, and do so properly. Here's another one that apparently could learn that lesson:

www.foxnews.com/opinion/2014/06/03/baker...vity-training-after/


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9 years 10 months ago #379293 by Fishtaco

Joves wrote: I am guessing this is for a wedding. 


You will have to deal with rude people throughout all of life. You should try working in the heavy construction industry on the concrete end sometime. The stress in this end of the business makes normally nice people into monsters. It is business so I do not take it personally. Sounds like you handled it correctly. I would do that anytime they start getting rude, and note that they wanted you to do the work, not the other way around. 



:agree:     I was going to say the same thing!  ha ha ha 


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9 years 10 months ago #379341 by Stealthy Ninja

garyrhook wrote: Define "rude"?

SN's post above is about someone that becomes demanding, and the response is all about "this is the service I (we) provide; I don't do what you are asking. It would be better for you to find someone else that can meet your needs because I am unable to do so. Thankyouforyourinterestandgood day."

It is imperative to know how to fire a customer, and do so properly. Here's another one that apparently could learn that lesson:

www.foxnews.com/opinion/2014/06/03/baker...vity-training-after/


Yeh exactly.  No point working with someone who's demanding more than what you do.

Also, if you don't want to make gay cakes, say you're all out of pink icing. :toocrazy:
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9 years 10 months ago #379653 by Kenya See
I don't get to many rude people, but I'm a tough girl.  So I have a high tolerance.  


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9 years 10 months ago #379672 by Stealthy Ninja



Kenya See wrote: I don't get to many rude people, but I'm a tough girl.  So I have a high tolerance.  

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Maybe they're scared of you. :P
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9 years 10 months ago #379698 by Miss Polly

Joves wrote: I am guessing this is for a wedding. 


You will have to deal with rude people throughout all of life. You should try working in the heavy construction industry on the concrete end sometime. The stress in this end of the business makes normally nice people into monsters. It is business so I do not take it personally. Sounds like you handled it correctly. I would do that anytime they start getting rude, and note that they wanted you to do the work, not the other way around. 



Actually she was!


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9 years 10 months ago #379736 by Alan Nunez

Stealthy Ninja wrote:



Kenya See wrote: I don't get to many rude people, but I'm a tough girl.  So I have a high tolerance.  

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Maybe they're scared of you. :P


From Kanya's photo there she does not look scary


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9 years 10 months ago #379737 by Alan Nunez
I think there is a fine line between a rude client and an upset client. I will not tolerate rude clients, they can be someone else's problem. I do sometimes find client that are upset and are doing a poor job of expressing the issue. This type I find it very easy to get them back on side and happy by just agreeing there is an issue and offer to do everything reasonably possible to fix it. 


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